He knows all...

Mr Know All

When Kantipur TV's popular show Bahas comes on air, I make it a point not to miss it. It's a great program, with such a bold presenter who does not hesitate to ask any kind of questions to anyone, especially the politicians. But no matter how I try not to be disappointed, Mr Indra Lohani disappoints me eventually, with his humiliating questions.

His latest guest was Rajiv Kafle, one of the bold men who did not fear the stigma and publicized his HIV-infected condition at a time when only a certain population was aware of it. For thousands of Nepalis, he has become a role model, and when I saw this guy on Bahas, I thought Kafle's boldness and dedication would be respected.

But no, the first question he is asked is: "Do you have AIDS or HIV?" Maybe Lohani wanted to show the public what the difference between the two was through Rajiv, but he did not think how the guest would feel. And he was not an ordinary guest—a person who dared and challenged the mentality of people that even HIV-infected could stand up from the crowd.

In the course of interview, Rajiv said how his dream to be a pilot could not materialize. He also talked about a donation-based hospital that he was running. Also, he shared he spent a lot of time with around 40 children—some whose parents had died of the infection and some who had the infection.

Listening to all these, Lohani fires another question: "Don't you think HIV-infection gave you an opportunity to be popular?" For a moment, I myself was hurt. How could he ask such a question to a person who has been fighting the condition to live a better life? A person has to positively take all kind of facial expressions when people know of the infection...

Rajiv Kafle is not my relative or my friend or anyone linked with me. But since my school days, I have known him as a bold guy who publicized his condition irrespective of the isolation he was bound to face and then began working for people like him, to protect them. So, I respect him.

Mr Lohani may have all the knowledge in the world but that knowledge would do good to no one if he invites people in his show just to show them he knows better. One may think I am no better either as I am publicly criticizing someone, but there is a difference. I am a nobody but Lohani and Kafle both are public figures, and both of them should be respected in their own ways.

Kafle & Lohani on 'Bahas'